A girl always wants to become strong and independent. She don't want a supportive hand to stand. She don't want to obey the others for her each and every action.. She wants to move on the road made by her. Is it possible? It is cumbersome but not impossible. Whenever a girl use to go out of her house a list of instruction is given to her by father, mother or else elders. The most important instruction remains: Always in contact up to the time you were outside. Is this all necessary? The answer may be 'Yes' or 'No' depends on your view point.
The answer will be 'No' if you are too alert and intelligent to tackle any problem and 'yes' if you are so innocent and always lived in a fully secured environment.
People are of two types, one who respect the girls as well as support them and other who always underestimate them at every frontier and pull them back into the barer of so called custom and tradition. We girls have our own huge bulk of experiences. Below mentioned is one of my own experiences.
I was on a trip to Jaipur for attending my UPSC exam. well as it was my first visit, the place was to strange to me. One thing I did well was my stay at an engineering girl's hostel was conform. As in India, it is tough to reach at time. My arrival was decided at 6 pm but I reached at 8pm. it was too dark. As I put my first foot on the strange land of Jaipur wearing a formal dress. Lots of taxi driver gathered around me and were asking where to go? I was ready to take the one but a lady from back asked me "where you want to go?"
I told her the place that was quite far away. She said to me not to hire a taxi but to go through the bus. On asking she told me a girl of your age is being kidnapped last night and nobody knows what happens to her. This made me afraid too. Well she remains with me up to the midway. The bus was also going to the midway. Now i had to take the next bus to reach the exact location. That moment was too fearful as the road was silent with a nearby single shop opened and only the male persons were roaming. I decided to ask the shopkeeper about that bus, it was after half an hour. Then I decided to take a taxi instead of standing there as the shopkeeper was going to shut the shop. Now I was in a taxi, the driver was singing song and meanwhile asking about me too. I was not answering to him. now he started dancing too. As i see the outside Scene, it was totally dark like a night of new moon day. Only a single road was running, no light, no shops on either side of the road. I don't know whether he was taking me to the right way or not. Well suddenly he stops and take a paan from a small shop. I too come out of the taxi and copied the number plate in my sms and send it to my parents and friends. All became alert. Finally i got back into the taxi but he didn't stop his talking. This makes me angry too and I said to him in a rude voice your taxi number is being sent to the police station. Sit properly and drive sincerely otherwise the next morning you will be in jail. This made him afraid and then he takes me to the right place without speaking a single word.
The motto of sharing the story is just to make the innocent girl aware about a small problem they usually face during their visit to some strange place.
The answer will be 'No' if you are too alert and intelligent to tackle any problem and 'yes' if you are so innocent and always lived in a fully secured environment.
People are of two types, one who respect the girls as well as support them and other who always underestimate them at every frontier and pull them back into the barer of so called custom and tradition. We girls have our own huge bulk of experiences. Below mentioned is one of my own experiences.
I was on a trip to Jaipur for attending my UPSC exam. well as it was my first visit, the place was to strange to me. One thing I did well was my stay at an engineering girl's hostel was conform. As in India, it is tough to reach at time. My arrival was decided at 6 pm but I reached at 8pm. it was too dark. As I put my first foot on the strange land of Jaipur wearing a formal dress. Lots of taxi driver gathered around me and were asking where to go? I was ready to take the one but a lady from back asked me "where you want to go?"
I told her the place that was quite far away. She said to me not to hire a taxi but to go through the bus. On asking she told me a girl of your age is being kidnapped last night and nobody knows what happens to her. This made me afraid too. Well she remains with me up to the midway. The bus was also going to the midway. Now i had to take the next bus to reach the exact location. That moment was too fearful as the road was silent with a nearby single shop opened and only the male persons were roaming. I decided to ask the shopkeeper about that bus, it was after half an hour. Then I decided to take a taxi instead of standing there as the shopkeeper was going to shut the shop. Now I was in a taxi, the driver was singing song and meanwhile asking about me too. I was not answering to him. now he started dancing too. As i see the outside Scene, it was totally dark like a night of new moon day. Only a single road was running, no light, no shops on either side of the road. I don't know whether he was taking me to the right way or not. Well suddenly he stops and take a paan from a small shop. I too come out of the taxi and copied the number plate in my sms and send it to my parents and friends. All became alert. Finally i got back into the taxi but he didn't stop his talking. This makes me angry too and I said to him in a rude voice your taxi number is being sent to the police station. Sit properly and drive sincerely otherwise the next morning you will be in jail. This made him afraid and then he takes me to the right place without speaking a single word.
The motto of sharing the story is just to make the innocent girl aware about a small problem they usually face during their visit to some strange place.
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